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		<title>Why We Are Married, part Infinity Minus One</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Me, 10am: I didn&#8217;t sleep well and I still have the headache I had last night and my nose is stuffy and I have cramps and a backache and I have skinless patches of psoriasis in spots where it&#8217;s very awkward not to have any skin and there&#8217;s a big pile of laundry and waaaaah, it&#8217;s too early to start drinking isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>Him: Yes. </p>
<p>[pause]</p>
<p>Him: But it&#8217;s not too early for drugs.</p>
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		<title>Neat Stuff from Elsewhere Wed Feb 01, 2012</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:02:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alice Bradley &#8211; Blog &#8211; On being an object, and then not being an object  Alice Bradley &#8211; Blog &#8211; On being an object, and then not being an object : There were other incidents, too; so many incidents. Every one underscored the message that I wasn’t safe, that I deserved whatever was coming to me, [...]]]></description>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/16584735773" rel="external">Alice Bradley &#8211; Blog &#8211; On being an object, and then not being an object </a>
<div><a href="http://www.finslippy.com/blog/on-being-an-object-and-then-not-being-an-object.html">Alice Bradley &#8211; Blog &#8211; On being an object, and then not being an object </a>:<br />
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<p>There were other incidents, too; so many incidents. Every one underscored the message that I wasn’t safe, that I deserved whatever was coming to me, because I was young and a woman and that was how it was and also I should appreciate it. I tried to look unapproachable, but I don’t think my face works that way; I just looked sad and then men barked at me to cheer up, to give them a smile. I wanted to look hard and angry. Lord knows I wanted to be intimidating. It just didn’t work.</p>
<p>These days I feel like I’m off the hook. Like I’m free. I still do want to be intimidating, though. There are days when I want to be terrifying.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/16535100919" rel="external">The Challenges of Burying the Dead in Urban Asia &#8211; Arts &amp; Lifestyle &#8211; The Atlantic Cities</a>
<div><a href="http://www.theatlanticcities.com/arts-and-lifestyle/2012/01/burying-dead-urban-asia/1059/">The Challenges of Burying the Dead in Urban Asia &#8211; Arts &amp; Lifestyle &#8211; The Atlantic Cities</a>:<br />
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<p>What began as a physical problem has given rise to novel spiritual rituals in many Asian cities. In the February issue of Urban Studies, Lily Kong, a geographer at the National University of Singapore, describes how commemorative practices in Hong Kong, Taiwan, and China have changed in response to shrinking amounts of physical space for the dead.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/16530663653" rel="external">Neuroskeptic: Take Your Placebos, Or Die</a>
<div><a href="http://neuroskeptic.blogspot.com/2012/01/take-your-placebos-or-die.html">Neuroskeptic: Take Your Placebos, Or Die</a>:<br />
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<p>Here’s the big finding: in the placebo group of 1174 patients, the people who took all of their placebo pills on time (the good adherers), were significantly less likely to die than the patients who missed lots of doses. People who took over 75% as directed were 40% less likely to die than those with less than 75% adherence:</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/16529895939" rel="external">Sex Isn&#8217;t Going to Harm Most Heart Patients—But Avoid Having Affairs &#8211; Susan H. Scher &#8211; Health &#8211; The Atlantic</a>
<div><a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2012/01/sex-isnt-going-to-harm-most-heart-patients-but-avoid-having-affairs/251975/">Sex Isn&#8217;t Going to Harm Most Heart Patients—But Avoid Having Affairs &#8211; Susan H. Scher &#8211; Health &#8211; The Atlantic</a>:<br />
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<p>In those very rare cases when sex-related cardiac death occurs, it’s almost always in men and mostly in those who are having extramarital sex, in most cases with a younger partner in an unfamiliar setting and/or after excessive food and alcohol consumption.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/16479279949" rel="external">&quot;Make good stuff, then make it easy for people to buy it. There’s your anti-piracy plan.&quot;</a>
<div>“Make good stuff, then make it easy for people to buy it. There’s your anti-piracy plan.”</p>
<p> &#8211; <em>
<p>Jonathan Coulton is wise.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.jonathancoulton.com/2012/01/21/megaupload/"></a><a href="http://www.jonathancoulton.com/2012/01/21/megaupload/">http://www.jonathancoulton.com/2012/01/21/megaupload/</a></p>
<p>(via <a href="http://neil-gaiman.tumblr.com/">neil-gaiman</a>)</p>
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		<title>Neat Stuff from Elsewhere Wed Jan 25, 2012</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 15:05:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[BBC Nature &#8211; In pictures: How elephants cool off overnight BBC Nature &#8211; In pictures: How elephants cool off overnight: Scientists from the University of Guelph, Canada have used thermal imaging cameras to record how Asian elephants at the Busch Gardens zoological park in Florida, US handle the heat Answer: at night they use their [...]]]></description>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/16415068112" rel="external">BBC Nature &#8211; In pictures: How elephants cool off overnight</a>
<div><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/nature/16657090">BBC Nature &#8211; In pictures: How elephants cool off overnight</a>:<br />
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<p>Scientists from the University of Guelph, Canada have used thermal imaging cameras to record how Asian elephants at the Busch Gardens zoological park in Florida, US handle the heat</p>
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<p>Answer: at night they use their trunks to help disperse the heat.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/16123347107" rel="external">Which direction now? Just ask the north-facing map in your head</a>
<div><a href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/01/120118123058.htm">Which direction now? Just ask the north-facing map in your head</a>:<br />
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<p>26 residents of Tübingen (who had lived in Tübingen for at least two years) were put into a virtual-reality headset and seated in a chair that didn’t allow them to swivel. Participants found themselves in the virtual three-dimensional photorealistic model of their hometown, at locations familiar to them, surrounded by fog masking all but the near distance. Then they had to point to an invisible location — say, the main gate of the university or the fire station. The scenes changed, and so did the participant’s spatial orientation. After 60 three-location trials, participants were asked to draw a map of the town including all the locations they’d pointed to. The results: Although participants drew differently oriented maps, everyone performed most accurately when facing north and got worse the further they deviated from north. The only explanation the researchers could figure was that they’d all seen, and internalized, a map of Tübingen at some point, and Western maps are all oriented the same way — north on top.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/16123265827" rel="external">PLoS ONE: Behavioral Priming: It&#8217;s All in the Mind, but Whose Mind?</a>
<div><a href="http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi/10.1371/journal.pone.0029081">PLoS ONE: Behavioral Priming: It&#8217;s All in the Mind, but Whose Mind?</a>:<br />
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<p>The perspective that behavior is often driven by unconscious determinants has become widespread in social psychology. Bargh, Chen, and Burrows’ (1996) famous study, in which participants unwittingly exposed to the stereotype of age walked slower when exiting the laboratory, was instrumental in defining this perspective. Here, we present two experiments aimed at replicating the original study. Despite the use of automated timing methods and a larger sample, our first experiment failed to show priming. Our second experiment was aimed at manipulating the beliefs of the experimenters: Half were led to think that participants would walk slower when primed congruently, and the other half was led to expect the opposite. Strikingly, we obtained a walking speed effect, but only when experimenters believed participants would indeed walk slower. This suggests that both priming and experimenters’ expectations are instrumental in explaining the walking speed effect. Further, debriefing was suggestive of awareness of the primes. We conclude that unconscious behavioral priming is real, while real, involves mechanisms different from those typically assumed to cause the effect.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/15955252912" rel="external">Unknown Sixth Toe Discovered in Elephants | Wired Science | Wired.com</a>
<div><a href="http://www.wired.com/wiredscience/2011/12/elephant-toes/">Unknown Sixth Toe Discovered in Elephants | Wired Science | Wired.com</a>:<br />
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<p>Three hundred years ago, a surgeon claimed elephants had six toes instead of the usual five, setting off a debate about whether an extra digit was really possible. Modern anatomists scoffed at the idea, insisting instead that the extra toe was really just a big lump of cartilage. Now a study of scores of elephant feet shows that the lump really does turn into bone. The digit is not a true toe — it’s more like a panda’s faux thumb. But it nonetheless helps support the pachyderm’s mighty girth.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/15953038012" rel="external">NCBI ROFL: Farts: an underappreciated threat to astronauts. Discover Magazine</a>
<div><a href="http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/discoblog/2012/01/12/ncbi-rofl-farts-an-underappreciated-threat-to-astronauts/">NCBI ROFL: Farts: an underappreciated threat to astronauts. Discover Magazine</a>:<br />
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<p>One group of 6 men ate Gemini-type diet (S) and another received a bland  formula (F), for 42 days. Breath and rectal gases were analyzed during  the first and final weeks. Flatus gases varied widely within dietary  groups but much more gas was generated with diet S than with F.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/15785721448" rel="external">Genetically engineered silkworms with spider genes spin super-strong silk | Not Exactly Rocket Science | Discover Magazine</a>
<div><a href="http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/notrocketscience/2012/01/03/genetically-engineered-silkworms-with-spider-genes-spin-super-strong-silk/">Genetically engineered silkworms with spider genes spin super-strong silk | Not Exactly Rocket Science | Discover Magazine</a>:
<p>Very cool!</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/14471156834" rel="external">The Physics of Great White Sharks Leaping Out of the Water to Catch Seals &#8211; Alexis Madrigal &#8211; Technology &#8211; The Atlantic</a>
<div><a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2011/12/the-physics-of-great-white-sharks-leaping-out-of-the-water-to-catch-seals/249799/?&amp;utm_content=Google%20Reader">The Physics of Great White Sharks Leaping Out of the Water to Catch Seals &#8211; Alexis Madrigal &#8211; Technology &#8211; The Atlantic</a>:
<p>The diagram in this is wonderful.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/14471102495" rel="external">Santa&#8217;s Christmas Eve Workload, Calculated &#8211; Philip Bump &#8211; Technology &#8211; The Atlantic</a>
<div><a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2011/12/santas-christmas-eve-workload-calculated/249844/?&amp;utm_content=Google%20Reader">Santa&#8217;s Christmas Eve Workload, Calculated &#8211; Philip Bump &#8211; Technology &#8211; The Atlantic</a>:<br />
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<p>Granted, it seems… impractical. Over the course of one night, St.  Nick has to stop by the home of every Christian child in the world. Of  which there are a lot &#8211; an indeterminately large number of kids waiting  for their gifts.</p>
<p>I decided to figure out how many, how big a task Mr. Claus faces as  he races west across the face of the globe, staying ahead of the sun.  And I did. Or, anyway, I came up with a pretty solid estimate.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/13922761693" rel="external">The Right (and Wrong) Way to Die When You Fall Into Lava | Wired Science | Wired.com</a>
<div><a href="http://www.wired.com/wiredscience/2011/12/the-right-and-wrong-way-to-die-when-you-fall-into-lava/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed:%20wired/index%20(Wired:%20Index%203%20(Top%20Stories%202))&amp;utm_content=Google%20Reader">The Right (and Wrong) Way to Die When You Fall Into Lava | Wired Science | Wired.com</a>:<br />
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<p>You can try the experiment at home (without grievous bodily harm). Take  your favorite motor oil (I prefer 5W30) at room temperature and fill a  small pail. Motor oil at room temperature should have a density of ~920  kg/m<sup>3</sup> and viscosity of ~1 Pa-s – this will be your lava. Cut a little fellow out of styrofoam. It has a density of ~300 kg/m<sup>3</sup>,  so it is roughly 1/3 the density of the oil. Now, position your  Styroguy on the edge and push him in. Does he sink instantly into the  oil? No! So, neither should you in you fall into lava. Now, Stryoguy  didn’t get the full effect by then proceeding into bursting into flames,  which would be your bonus for falling into lava — remember, most of the  red-hot lava pictures in movies like likely basaltic lava at ~1,100 to  1,200°C (for comparison, your oven on broil is ~275°C).  However, if  you’re already in a position to fall into lava, you had it coming.</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/12928587296" rel="external">Leonardo’s Formula Explains Why Trees Don’t Splinter | Wired Science | Wired.com</a>
<div><a href="http://www.wired.com/wiredscience/2011/11/branching-tree-physics/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed:%20wired/index%20(Wired:%20Index%203%20(Top%20Stories%202))&amp;utm_content=Google%20Reader">Leonardo’s Formula Explains Why Trees Don’t Splinter | Wired Science | Wired.com</a>:<br />
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<p>The rule says that when a tree’s trunk splits into two branches,  the  total cross section of those secondary branches will equal the cross   section of the trunk. If those two branches in turn each split into two   branches, the area of the cross sections of the four additional   branches together will equal the area of the cross section of the trunk.   And so on.</p>
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<p>The answer has to do with wind, apparently. Interesting!</p>
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<li><a href="http://rkalda.tumblr.com/post/12883325780" rel="external">Beluga body scrub session filmed</a>
<div><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/nature/15738210">Beluga body scrub session filmed</a>:
<p>Exfoliating belugas!</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Débâcle&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 16:56:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Quotation of the Day for January 23, 2012 &#8220;&#8216;No accident that _débâcle_ is a French word,&#8217; observed my brother once&#8230;. The word _débâcle_ suggests the going-wrong of an elaborately conceived plan: a disaster that somehow leaves the principal parties not only having lost what they were aware that they were risking but much more besides, [...]]]></description>
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<blockquote><p>&#8220;&#8216;No accident that _débâcle_ is a French word,&#8217; observed my brother once&#8230;. The word _débâcle_ suggests the going-wrong of an elaborately conceived plan: a disaster that somehow leaves the principal parties not only having lost what they were aware that they were risking but much more besides, as if an attempt to charm the boss by inviting him to dinner and cooking an ambitious favourite dish of his were to result in the death by poisoning of his wife, the loss of one&#8217;s job, collapse of one&#8217;s marriage, one&#8217;s bankruptcy, turn to violent crime, and subsequent death in a shoot-out with police &#8211; when all one was worried about was the risk of curdling the hollandaise. Compare the implication of mismanagement, of organization going wrong, in the Gallic _débâcle_ with the candidly chaotic, intimate quality of the Italian _fiasco_, or the blokishly masculine and pragmatic (and I would suggest implicitly reversible and therefore, in its deep assumptions, optimistic) American _fuck-up_.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>- John Lanchester, The Debt to Pleasure. </p>
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		<title>It&#8217;s not the headphones</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 02:24:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here we have an article exploring pedestrian-vehicle crashes &#8220;in which the pedestrian was using headphones&#8220;. Results There were 116 reports of death or injury of pedestrians wearing headphones. The majority of victims were male (68%) and under the age of 30 (67%). The majority of vehicles involved in the crashes were trains (55%), and 89% [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here we have an article exploring pedestrian-vehicle crashes &#8220;<a href="http://injuryprevention.bmj.com/content/early/2012/01/03/injuryprev-2011-040161.abstract?sid=0fdb6978-f696-4e7a-a9a6-794b8f667c5a">in which the pedestrian was using headphones</a>&#8220;. </p>
<blockquote><p>Results There were 116 reports of death or injury of pedestrians wearing headphones. The majority of victims were male (68%) and under the age of 30 (67%). The majority of vehicles involved in the crashes were trains (55%), and 89% of cases occurred in urban counties. 74% of case reports stated that the victim was wearing headphones at the time of the crash. Many cases (29%) mentioned that a warning was sounded before the crash. </p></blockquote>
<p>This sounds a bit confused &#8212; were there 116 incidents, or 74% of 116? One wonders. Either way, 116 over seven years (16.6 fatalities a year) doesn&#8217;t seem like a lot to get excited about, given that the USA has over 30,000 fatalities annually from car crashes (did they have their car stereos on? Perhaps it&#8217;s the music that&#8217;s at fault).</p>
<p>One also wonders, if I count as &#8220;one&#8221;, why the headphones are being blamed here. Being a pedestrian is not in itself inherently dangerous. It&#8217;s hard to kill yourself just walking around; it&#8217;s the large vehicles with which one may suddenly come into contact that are the danger here. As a pedestrian walking around at 6km/h, I am not dangerous. A motor vehicle comprising a bunch of metal traveling at 50km/h or more is dangerous. </p>
<p>A train is also dangerous. If 55% of these crashes involved trains, mostly in urban areas, why is the focus not on decreasing pedestrian access to train tracks? And since when is 29% &#8212; where &#8220;a warning was sounded&#8221; &#8212; &#8220;many&#8221;?</p>
<p>This sort of blame-the-victim writing really ticks me off.</p>
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		<title>The Uncool, part 1 of many</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2012 20:18:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[New Year&#8217;s Eve, 4pm M: Can I sleep over at [friend]&#8216;s tonight? Me: Um, you don&#8217;t want to be here with us? M: No. We&#8217;re cleaning [friend]&#8216;s stuffed animals. We found if you put soap on the stains and let it set, the stains come out with the soap when we wash them! Me: That&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>New Year&#8217;s Eve, 4pm</em></p>
<p>M: Can I sleep over at [friend]&#8216;s tonight? </p>
<p>Me: Um, you don&#8217;t want to be here with us? </p>
<p>M: No. We&#8217;re cleaning [friend]&#8216;s stuffed animals. We found if you put soap on the stains and let it set, the stains come out with the soap when we wash them!</p>
<p>Me: That&#8217;s true, but it&#8217;s easier just to put them in the washing machine. We&#8217;re going to have cheese and crackers with everybody probably around 7:30, why don&#8217;t you drop by for that?</p>
<p>M: No, we just want to play in the basement.</p>
<p>Me: OK then. Have fun! Happy New Year!</p>
<p><em>M leaves</em></p>
<p>D: So, just to be clear about this &#8212; we&#8217;re less fun than laundry.</p>
<p>Me: Yep.</p>
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		<title>2012</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Dec 2011 19:54:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[And so &#8212; 2012. As usual Neil Gaiman has the best wish, which has managed to condense thoughts that took me three pages to write for my niece into a few short lines. Well, that&#8217;s why Neil gets the big bucks and I don&#8217;t, isn&#8217;t it? I hope that in this year to come, you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And so &#8212; 2012.</p>
<p>As usual <a href="http://journal.neilgaiman.com/2011/12/my-new-year-wish.html">Neil Gaiman has the best wish</a>, which has managed to condense thoughts that took me three pages to write for my niece into a few short lines. Well, that&#8217;s why Neil gets the big bucks and I don&#8217;t, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<blockquote><p>I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes.</p>
<p>Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You&#8217;re doing things you&#8217;ve never done before, and more importantly, you&#8217;re Doing Something.</p>
<p>So that&#8217;s my wish for you, and all of us, and my wish for myself. Make New Mistakes. Make glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody&#8217;s ever made before. Don&#8217;t freeze, don&#8217;t stop, don&#8217;t worry that it isn&#8217;t good enough, or it isn&#8217;t perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work or family or life.</p>
<p>Whatever it is you&#8217;re scared of doing, Do it.</p>
<p>Make your mistakes, next year and forever.</p></blockquote>
<p>If one does fall prey to the most common New Year&#8217;s Eve mistake, there is this helpful guide from Slate to guide us through those first, often fraught, hours after waking: <a href="http://www.slate.com/articles/life/drink/2011/12/bloody_marys_the_breakfast_martini_and_the_corpse_reviver_what_to_drink_the_morning_after_.html">Drinking in the Morning After &#8211; The do&#8217;s and don’ts of imbibing in the a.m.</a></p>
<blockquote><p>Drinking at breakfast is a rare pleasure with a noble heritage, and you need to show some decorum. If self-respect is beyond you at the moment in question, then settle for showing some respect for the institution. Treat this as a special occasion and dress to impress—a feat easily accomplished by waking up in or near your tuxedo. At the very least, affix a boutonniere to the lapel of your bathrobe.</p></blockquote>
<p>Finally, while it&#8217;s still nice and quiet and we all have time to plan, I&#8217;ll remind everyone that I have declared January 2 to be <a href="http://www.blog.kalda.ca/archives/301">Introvert Day</a> &#8212; the only holiday that you celebrate by deliberately NOT gathering with beloved family and friends. Enjoy your precious solitude, and may 2012 bring you happiness.</p>
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		<title>The annual holiday health curmudgeon warning</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Again it&#8217;s time for the holiday health curmudgeons to bleat at us, disregarding mental and emotional health and a warm feeling of togetherness and community in favour of carrot sticks and abstinence. This year they&#8217;d like us to tell our relatives they&#8217;re fat. &#8216;Tell loved ones they are overweight this Christmas&#8217; Christmas may be a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Again it&#8217;s time for the holiday health curmudgeons to bleat at us, disregarding mental and emotional health and a warm feeling of togetherness and community in favour of carrot sticks and abstinence.</p>
<p>This year they&#8217;d like us to tell our relatives they&#8217;re fat.</p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-16275027">&#8216;Tell loved ones they are overweight this Christmas&#8217;</a></p>
<p>Christmas may be a time of indulging for many, but health experts believe it is the perfect time to tell a loved one they are overweight.</p></blockquote>
<p>Right, because<br />
1. They don&#8217;t know?<br />
2. It&#8217;s any of your business?<br />
3. There&#8217;s not an increasing body of evidence that the connection between health and body size is not as simple as &#8220;fat = bad&#8221;?</p>
<p>That&#8217;ll be a really merry Christmas for everyone. </p>
<p>Pff. If the &#8220;health experts&#8221; are worried about people&#8217;s health, perhaps they shouldn&#8217;t give people advice that will get them punched.</p>
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